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The Hidden Skill That Boosts Clarity And Focus In 90 Seconds

Amber Deibert

October 21, 2025

We spend our whole lives trying to outthink emotions.
We outwork them. Outrun them. Numb them with busyness and “productivity.”

But the truth is, it’s not your calendar, your system, or your discipline that’s holding you back.
It’s the
one thing you refuse to feel.

Fear. Embarrassment. Shame.
Whatever it is, you’ve built your whole life around not feeling it.

And that’s what’s keeping you stuck.

In this episode, I’ll walk you into the part nobody talks about, where every goal you want lives on the other side of a feeling you’ve been avoiding.
I’ll teach you how to sit with it, how to let it move, and how to discover that it was never as scary as you thought.

Because once you can feel anything,
you can create everything.

🎯 In this episode we riff on:

↠ Why emotions, not effort, are what keep high achievers stuck

↠ The wild truth that your “worst case scenario” is just a physical sensation

↠ The $30K Charley Horse experiment that rewires your brain’s fear loop

↠ My Home Run Derby story that proves sadness only lasts 90 seconds

↠ How to stop intellectualizing and start actually feeling

↠ The difference between being in emotions and being with them

↠ Why your emotions aren’t facts, but they’re sacred data

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Amber Deibert...

Hi, I’m Amber, the go-to performance coach for enterprise tech sellers looking to ditch mindset trash, streamline their workday, and get more done with less friction. 

I’ve been coaching full-time for over 6 years, and with hundreds of sellers (1000+ sessions and counting!) under my belt. 

I know what it takes to help high performers reach new heights—and still have time to be present with your family + personal life.


I spent years in tech, myself. In roles like Learning & Development, Leadership, Sales Enablement, and System Administration. 


I know what it’s like to manage a mile-long to-do list and the pressure of being a top performer at a rocketship startup. 


I’ve also been where my clients are: overwhelmed, unsure of myself, and thinking everyone around me was naturally more confident and driven. 


But here's the thing—confidence isn’t about being born with it. It’s about having the right mindset and habits to back yourself up. 


That’s where I come in.